Teen promiscuity is now in the stage of worrying parents. It is better if we, as parents or prospective parents to consider granting sex education to our children properly. This subject has been given at Science lessons. This material of sex education is usually included in the lessons of human reproduction. This subject is given in the hope that learners are able to address their own sexuality appropriately. For example, about menstruation and sexual intercourse.
Often found that kindergarten age children already talking about going out with opposite sex, playing the role of mother and father, even if that jealousy has claimed as his girlfriend is adjacent to another child. Another side, it also found that many child at that age are still preoccupied with dolls or bikes and are not concerned with the opposite sex. Child maturity is different and rather complex.
The phenomenon of young children begin to be attracted to the opposite sex has been found in the fourth-grade elementary school students in Indonesia. Especially in girls. Therefore, there are certain schools that provide materials related to puberty in them. Today's kids do mature faster, there are encountered her first menstruation at the fourth grade or at the beginning fifth grade.
Children not recognize their sexuality until the age of four years. At this stage the child should be introduced right terms of their reproductive organs, such as penises and instead of birds as example. Also consider if there are parents who has a habit of kissing her or his children on lips about its health aspects. Lips have many and very sensitive nervous system. Especially in children.
About at what age a child should be allowed to dating , its depends on our considerations as parents ourselves. Duly taking into account the maturity of the child. Also instill in to our children to report to the authorities and parents when they experiencing sexual harassment. We have to explain to our children about the dangers of such behavior.
This is a few notes about the sexual education for children. Hope it could be a beginning for other more complete writing.
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